You are free to use any oil you like but If you are worried about final drive issues why not get what is specified. Its not that hard to find. I googled 70W-80 and lots of choices came up. Both Amazon and Walmart have 70W-80 available for delivery. It is also a gear oil weight used in Mopars so the local Chrysler/Dodge dealer probably has a case or three of it on the shelf. Or just saunter down to the local BMW dealers and buy a liter from them.

Amazon.com: Red Line Synthetic Oil Corp (WWR50204) MTL 70W80 GL-4, qt
Amazon.com: Red Line Synthetic Oil Corp (WWR50204) MTL 70W80 GL-4, qt
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